Inventive in sex and passionate nymphomaniac will not necessarily be a joy for every man. Another thing is when a lady simply has an increased libido and a cheerful temperament. But nymphomaniacs, not only can tire any sexual machine, but in themselves are, in fact, unhappy women who are not able to get enough of any love intimacy.
This is clearly a pathological sign, and in the old days such a condition was called uterine riot. In this case, the woman is so dependent on sex that she goes for sex in any situation and with any partner.
And any of the brightest discharges does not bring satisfaction to her, because the body requires more and more new colors. She does not understand what it means to stop for a moment, her sense of proportion is completely lost, which leads not to additional pleasures, but to more and more new problems. Of course, there is no question of any “loyalty” here. However, in the life of such women, fortunately, no more than three percent.
At the same time, excessive libido is extremely rarely the cause of nymphomania, much more often the cause is mental and physical diseases, such as pathologies of the central nervous system, manifestations of manic-depressive psychosis, endocrine pathology, organic lesions brain, gynecological ailments. Most often, neurosis manifests itself in the form of nymphomania. The reason may be emotional dissatisfaction, and as a result, increased sexual activity, as a means of compensating for it. However, it is not possible to drown it out, and each new sexual experience only adds to the loneliness.
Types of nymphomania
Lolita from Nabokov suffered from congenital nymphomania, which manifested itself at a young age due to the early onset of sexual activity and the frequent change of partners. There is also acquired nymphomania, which is the result of the development of some other disease.
It can also cause signs of nymphomania in the form of uncontrollable desire, for example, with menopause.
There is also an imaginary nymphomania, which is also a mental deviation, although not severe, when a lady tries to assert herself through sex.
Nymphomania can manifest itself in two ways. On the one hand, a woman has an irresistible passion to get the maximum number of orgasms, but this same passion may require an unlimited increase in the number of partners. Observations of such divas showed amazing results when a woman experienced up to twenty-five orgasms per night, and an orgasm could last an hour or more. Affected by this condition, the Australian married thirteen times. Some of her spouses died of exhaustion, but the more prudent divorced - in fear for their lives.
How to distinguish a nymphomaniac from an ordinary temperamental woman?
To distinguish an ordinary temperamental woman from a nymphomaniac, you should know a number of signs.
The nymphomaniac is characterized by incessant sexual dissatisfaction, erotic fantasy, a constant search for new partners, as well as casual relationships.
Intimate hunger makes the unfortunate woman seek, constantly changing beds, a man who can drown out this feeling, however, illness is a disease, and all her attempts only increase this feeling of dissatisfaction.
To determine a nymphomaniac follows three signs that have been approved by experts:
- The nymphomaniac constantly needs sex and neither ten nor twenty sexual acts a day can satisfy her. This forces her to enter into any sexual relationship, where neither age, nor social status, nor the appearance of the partner no longer matter, sometimes the gender of the partner is no longer important, but no tricks ever make her completely satisfied.
- If these conditions are not typical for a passionate woman, then she simply has an increased libido, but she does not belong to the number of nymphomaniacs, or women with such a sexual pathology.
- These ladies mature quite early and already at about the age of ten they start menstruating. Their external features include growth (short or medium), they have wide hips and a plump waist, they are constantly fighting with vegetation on the body. This somewhat distinguishes them from the accepted norms of beauty.
Meg Conley, acclaimed marriage counselor and columnist for The Huffingtpon Post, provides guidance on reviving an active sex life.
When I was in a nail salon for the first time, I immediately learned that some even young and attractive women do not like to have sex with their husbands. I was 16 years old and I chose orange nail polish (oh, sixteen!). Between the procedures, two women who were next to me discussed how much sex their husbands want, and how much they don’t want to “give”.
For a girl who had never been asked out on a date, it was a new world. I had a hunch that their experience is much closer to reality than the mean articles in Cosmo.
“Doesn’t he understand how tired I am at the end of the day? After I put the children to bed, I only have strength left for the TV.
“I have another problem. I am still losing weight after having a baby. I don't feel sexy. I can hardly undress in front of a mirror, let alone parade naked in front of it. It seems to me that he would like to fuck someone prettier, but he just remains silent.
“I would watch him, returning from work, take care of the children and cook dinner. He can't even stop by for milk after work. I would see how much he would like sex if he did everything that I do.
“Yes, family responsibilities should be shared equally.”
Wait. These women are married. They live with a guy and sleep in their own bed. Aren't they supposed to have sex all the time? It all seemed like nonsense.
“How sad. So silly. When I get married, I will have sex with my husband all my free time. And I will never be too tired for this. My God, it's just ridiculous - to want a husband to buy milk. What a trifle! I will be better. “I will never be too tired or too fat to have sex!” I thought.
And then I grew up.
And she got married. The first time with Riley, we really spent a lot of hours in bed. And then we had a baby. And a mortgage. And I learned what it is when bones hurt in the evenings. And I felt fat. Even after a few months after the birth of the child, I felt that I was no longer the same as I was before. We began to move away from each other. We started falling asleep without talking to each other or kissing.
And then one day, when I was washing the dishes, I suddenly realized that I had not touched my husband for 8 days in a row. And the worst part is, it didn't even bother me. And that day, right after we put the baby to bed, I decided to force my husband to have sex with me. Yes, I was wildly tired and broken. But I remembered what I was thinking at 16 in that salon.
And from that day on, my life changed. And now I am ready to give you at least five reasons why you should strive at all costs to have sex with your husband every day.
1. Being a mother is one of the last manifestations of femininity.
And this role can deprive a woman of the opportunity to feel like a sex object. I spend most of my free time now playing with dolls, wiping baby food off my clothes, changing diapers and wiping snot. I go to the park in a tracksuit.
But there is something magical about kissing the person you love. And if you kiss regularly, it comes to the realization that you are not just a cleaner, a teacher, a cook and a window cleaner. You are a woman! And you can still enjoy other aspects of life, and not just dedicate yourself to only one child. But this realization will never come to you if you have given up on sex.
2. If you want your husband to behave like a man, you must treat him like a man.
Women should make men feel loved: and then they will become easier, they will be better at your cooking. And they will start to really want you. So if you don't have the energy for sex, order dinner at a restaurant instead of cooking it.
The rest of the time it would be nice to behave adequately too. Smile when you walk him to work, and smile when he arrives. And my God, let the poor fellow see you naked. How a good person can transform good woman if they love each other - it can be very surprising. If you start to pay attention, then after a couple of weeks you will not understand how it was that you didn’t want to fuck every day in the last months or years.
3. You will enjoy spending time together again.
Let it be only two hours after the child falls asleep, but they will be! Remember that ambitious, slightly dreamy guy you married? Remember how you felt like you were at the beginning of a big adventure? There is no reason to forget these emotions.
4. Sex relieves stress.
For any mother, panic begins with breakfast. And since you have to endure a lot, then you have a choice: either bang on the walls out of desperation or find (more precisely, remember) another way to “let off steam”. I choose option B.
5. Sex makes life easier. Literally.
When you have sex regularly, you won't care if you go to the cinema or not, if you go to social events, and how often you go shopping.
After all, we should have sex simply because we deserve it. Yes, we deserve it!
So just put the kids to bed early tonight. Leave the dishes in the sink and the floor is not perfectly clean. Take a moment to remember that you are a woman. And then go to that boy with whom you are head over heels in love. Then you know without me.
Wash the dishes tomorrow. Repeat daily.
In LiveJournal, I came across a question from one man: do the constant refusals of his wife serve as an excuse for the fact that a husband who really wanted oral sex went to a prostitute?
The comments boiled down to the following: why make excuses at all and in FIG such a wife.
I also think that "fig." Because it is necessary to marry and live with a smart and beautiful woman. The rest is sheer agony. Who does not remember the famous saying: "If a woman does not become a beauty by thirty, then she is a fool." Speaking of a beauty, I do not mean model data, but I mean a well-groomed woman.
If you don’t get physical pleasure in marriage or in a partnership, you have to run. There are plenty of reasons for dissatisfaction in sex: the partner has ceased to carefully monitor himself, you have different temperaments (for example, there are women who are indifferent to sex. I don’t know for sure about men. I think that there are also such people, but they, liars, are not recognized) or inconsistencies in bed appeared immediately, but you turned a blind eye to this, it was painful for the guy to be handsome (rich, cheerful, free, etc.). Waiting for something to change for the better is stupid. Of course, if you want to be wild on the washing machine, and your partner stubbornly does “it” in the bedroom, then just take it and invite him to move to the bathroom. He doesn't think about it himself. If a man happily took the initiative - everything is in order, harmony reigns between you. But if he grimaces and calls you a pervert - pack your things and rush away from his house (or urgently share square meters with him).
Once I had a man at my reception. He was tormented by remorse that he began to cheat on his wife. You can understand him: at home she did not put on make-up (“I want to relax!”) And casually dressed.
- The queen is going to work! And Cinderella is at home. I don't want her anymore…” he explains.
Brought her to the appointment. Indeed, almost a queen - fashionably dressed, long-legged, pretty. I can’t even believe the story about her favorite home workouts. I think that she, too, had someone wound up on the side, because she listened with incomprehension and irritation to my arguments about the need for constant seduction of her husband.
In sex, there is still such a problem: the man with whom you have just started dating slows down, does not pull you into bed. A month or two passes, and you are still in the dark about his abilities. Take the initiative in your own hands:
- Let's go to you?
Maybe he was just waiting for this! And if not again, leave the guy. With regret, I want to report that there are a lot of impotent even among 30-year-olds.
Assess your new lover honestly. For a long harmonious sexual relationship, it is necessary that the partners immediately like each other. To immediately be VERY good. If after the first night you can not unequivocally declare - it is beautiful! - then give the man one more chance to prove himself and then draw a conclusion. If not, break up. People often do not suit each other purely physically - by the smell of the skin, habits, body structure. Don't fool yourself.
If everything was fine, but after a month the man stalled, the passion came to naught, slow down the romance yourself. Go into the mud for a while, let him sort out his feelings. Perhaps he understood what you were waiting for. serious relationship, I saw your love, but I myself am not ready for such a turn. Or you don’t suit him in some other way (you have children, live with your mother, you are much older than him, you don’t have enough education - but you never know what else!). Or maybe you just crushed his masculine essence with your initiatives (sex suffers from this, a man cannot remain passionate).
And finally: if your lover (husband) reproaches you for coldness (sticks after your 12-hour working day), lack of initiative in bed and lack of sophistication of caresses - think about it. Don't point to the door right away. Try to get better. But ask him to the fullest! So that he, too, is ready 24 hours a day, and that everything that is described on the 1999 pages of the "Bible of Sex" can be put into practice. That's when it's honest! Then you are a real couple.
No matter how life circumstances develop, never miss the opportunity to sleep with each of the 10 of these girls. This is an invaluable experience, without which life will never be complete.
1. Nymphomaniac
Hot and young, who will want you always and everywhere - remember, everyone should want you and that's fine! Let her be the standard.
2. Former
The one who once upon a time broke your heart to smithereens, because of which you ate a ton of cheeseburgers and cried over 3 seasons of your favorite series. Only you need to do this years after the breakup, when everything is very good with you. Well, she's got it right.
3. Foreigner
It's just completely different than with our girls. An unforgettable and invaluable experience that you will remember with a smile in your old age. Plus, it's an adventure that should be in everyone's life.
4. Teacher
She tells who and what to do during the day, but likes to obey at night. Do not miss this chance to feel like a true dominant.
5 Funeral Home Owner's Daughter
First, you have never heard such silence before. And secondly, if your girlfriend finds out about your adventures, you can always count on a discount.
6. A woman older than you
She will give you her experience, and you will remember it for a long time. It may seem strange to you now, but in the long run you will be truly grateful to her.
7. Your girlfriend's friend
Have you heard that forbidden fruit is sweet? So, you are the forbidden fruit for her. Don't be greedy, let her rip you off. And by the way, the most ideal option is for your girlfriend to be with you.
8. Thick girl
Here the dimensions are limited only by your imagination and complexion. Of course it is important that she does not crush you. But from the bonuses you can note a large chest and an all-encompassing softness.
9. Legally Blonde
All in all. It doesn't have to be blonde, but definitely legal. A member of law enforcement or the judiciary. First, this time you will punish her, not she someone. And secondly, connections are everything.
10. Gymnast
